Julia orders some pancakes with raspberry dressing (sweet and heavy), and this is not a surprise. Julia is a very slim and elegant girl in her 20’s. She looks stunning! “I won’t be able to keep on a diet” – she said immediately. “I eat whatever I like and as much as I like. I am like this. However, there is a limited list of things I ever eat.”

I knew she liked ice-cream very much, ice-cream is definitely in “her list”. According to her own words “eating ice-cream is a process. It can not happen on the go. Never outside. It should always be at the table, in a nice little bowl, with a chocolate or strawberry dressing."
I got an impression that Julia is living her life with a deep feeling of it. She is the kind of person who accepts everything in life with a very true and honest “positive-ness”. Eating whatever she likes and as much as she likes is something to keep her “positive-ness” every day.
Going out with her friends for a girl-chat is an occasion for cakes, deserts, creamy-sweet-sugar stuff. “I will not eat a proper meal in a cafĂ© when I go out with friends. Just sweets”. This is not unusual in Russia!
All her little sweets during the day is something to keep her mood up. “
Small pleasures that make me feel better. Just a little bit. I will not be happier and my life won’t change, but I will feel better and lighter with my sweets and favorite meals.” Just watching her with her plate of pancakes one would understand what she means… Adorable!
Julia told me that there are hormones in our body that are responsible for good mood and feeling happy. “People often call them hormones of happiness. The more you eat bananas and chocolate, the more you get those hormones to your body.” Sounds like a physical reason behind feeling happy!
Opportunities: Just a little pleasure to make you day. It may not change your life or the world around, but it will definitely make you feel better. Allow yourself some indulgence. It is a well deserved treat.